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Dancing
Dancing is an art. More than that, it is a
healthful art. In its graceful movements, cadenced
rhythms, and expressive charms are evident the same
beautiful emotions that are so eloquently expressed
in music, sculpture, painting. And it is through
these expressions of emotion, through this silent
poetry of the body that dancing becomes a healthful
art, for it imparts to the body--and mind--a poise
and strength without which no one can be quite
happy.
It is because the vital importance of dancing on
the Mind and body has been universally recognized,
that it has been added to the curriculum of public
schools in almost every country. We find the
youngsters revelling in folk-dances, and entering
dancing games with a spirit that gives vigor to
their bodies, balance and grace to their movements.
Consider, for a moment, the irresistible witchery of
music, of rhythmic cadences. We hear the martial
note of the drum, and unconsciously our feet beat
time. We hear the first deep chords of the
orchestra, and involuntarily our fingers mark the
time of the measure. With the soft, mellow harmony
of triplet melodies we are transported to the solemn
vastness of a mountain beside a, gayly rippling
stream. With the deep, sonorous bursts of triumphant
melody, we are transported to the ocean's edge,
where the rumbling of the waves holds us in awed
ecstasy. Thoughts of sorrow, of gladness, of joy, of
hope surge through us and cry for expression.
Dancing is nature's way of expressing these
emotions.
Then let us dance, for in dancing we find poise and
strength and balance. Let us dance for in dancing we
find joy, pleasure, hope. It is the language of the
feelings, and nature meant it for the expression of
those feelings.
It is only when dancing is confined to hot, crowded
rooms where the atmosphere is unwholesome, that it
loses its healthful influence on mind and body. But
where there is plenty of room and fresh air, plenty
of good, soul-inspiring music--we say dance, young
and old alike, dance for the keen pleasure and joy
of the dance itself, and for the health that follows
in its wake!
Dance-Giving No Longer A Luxury
The day of the strictly formal dance, entailing
elaborate suppers, pretentious decorations and large
orchestras has passed. In its place is the simple,
enjoyable, inexpensive dance which is at once the
delight of the guests and the pride of the hostess.
Simplicity is the keynote of the modern ball. A
piano and two stringed instruments usually comprise
the entire orchestra. The charm of the home is no
longer spoiled by over-decoration; a vase or two
containing the flowers of the season offer the sole
touch of festivity. There are, of course, numerous
personal innovations that may be instituted; but as
the guests are assembled for dancing, space and a
good floor and plenty of fresh air are the primary
and paramount requisites.
Light refreshments have taken the place of the large
suppers of not so long ago. Hostesses no longer feel
overburdened with a sense of obligation. The dance
has become simple and inexpensive; and because it is
also so thoroughly enjoyable and healthful, it has
become a favorite sport, especially during the
cooler months.
The Debut Dance
Perhaps the most important dance of all is that
given in honor of the /debutante/. No matter how
large or formal a dance may be, it is never called a
"ball" in the invitation. The latter is used only in
case of a large public dance or function. The usual
"at home" form of invitation is used, and in the
lower left-hand corner the word dancing is printed.
The name of the young debutante may be included if
it is so desired, although it is not essential. But
if it is an evening occasion, the name of both host
and hostess must appear on the invitation.
Whether the dance is held in her own home or in a
hall hired for the occasion, the hostess receives
and welcomes each guest. She may be assisted by
several of her friends who are well-known in
society. Her daughter stands beside her and is
introduced to those of her mother's guests whom she
has not already met.
The debutante has her first partner selected for her
by her mother. She may not dance with one man more
than once on the occasion of her introduction to
society. But she is expected to dance every dance,
returning to receive guests during the intervals.
Sometimes the young debutante has several of her
chums receiving with her for the first half hour.
She offers her hand to every guest who arrives, and
introduces in turn the friends who are assisting
her.
The father of the debutante may receive with his
wife, but his duty is more to see that all the women
have partners, and that the chaperons are taken into
supper. He also sees that the gentlemen do their
duty as dancers instead of remaining in the dressing
room to smoke and chat. The hostess does not dance
at all, or if she does, it is usually late in the
evening. She remains at her post at the door,
welcoming guests and seeing that all shy men get
partners and all the young girls have a good time.
One paramount duty of the hostess is so to arrange
her invitations that there will be very many more
men than women; this eliminates the chance of there
being any unhappy wallflowers. Another consideration
is to arrange the chairs in informal little groups
instead of close to the walls in a solemn and dreary
line.
Costume Balls
The costume ball is conducted very much on the
same order as the formal ball. The invitations are
issued two or three weeks before the date set for
the dance, and as for the debut dance, the word ball
does not appear on it. Instead the words "Costumes
of the Twelfth Century" or "Shakespearean Costumes"
or whatever may be decided upon are printed in the
lower left-hand corner of usual "at home" cards.
In selecting a fancy costume, one must be careful to
choose only what is /individually/ becoming. It must
be in perfect harmony with one's personality. To
assume a character that is in every way opposed to
one's own character is unwise and ungratifying. A
sedate, quiet young miss should not choose a Folly
Costume. Nor should a jolly, vivacious young lady
elect to emulate Martha Washington, And furthermore,
a character must not be merely dressed--it must be
lived. The successful costume ball must be
realistic;
Subscription Dances
What is the purpose of the subscription dance? The
question is a common one. And the answer is simple.
A subscription dance is given for the same reason
that any other dance is given--to be surrounded by
one's friends, to enjoy music and dancing, and
generally to have a "good time" It is conducted very
much on the order of the formal dance, except that
it is semi-public and is usually held in a public
hall. There is no host or hostess, of course; their
place is held by an appointed committee or by the
patronesses of the dance. They stand at the door of
the ballroom to welcome guests, and they may either
offer their hands or bow in greeting. It is the duty
of the patronesses to introduce those of the guests
who are not already acquainted.
Each subscriber to the dance has the privilege of
inviting a certain number of friends to the
function. Or, if the membership decide to give
several periodic dances, he is entitled to invite a
certain number of friends to each one of them. The
invitations are issued two weeks ahead and require a
prompt acceptance or regrets.
Sometimes elaborate suppers are served at the
subscription dance, the money for the expenses
having been appropriated from the subscription fees
for the entertainment. Or simple refreshments, such
as dainty sandwiches, salads, ices, cakes and punch,
may be served at small, round tables.
In departing, it is not considered necessary to take
leave of the patronesses. However, if they are on
duty at the door, a cordial word or two of
consideration for their efforts may be extended.
The Ballroom
Everything in the ballroom should suggest gayety,
light and beauty. The floor, of course, is the most
important detail. A polished hardwood floor offers
the most pleasing surface for dancing. If the wood
seems sticky, paraffine wax adds a smoothness that
actually tempts one to dance.
Flowers are always pleasing. Huge ferns may grace
unexpected corners and greens may add a festive
note, if the hostess so desires. But there must not
be an obvious attempt at decoration.
Rather nothing at all, than so very much that it
borders on the ostentatious.
In fact, the dance is tending more and more to
become a simple and unpretentious function. The
elaborate decorations and fashionable conventions
that attended the minuet and quadrille of several
decades ago have given way to a jolly informality
which makes the dance so delightful and popular a
way of entertaining.
Music At The Dance
The music, of course, is important; A piano and one
or two stringed instruments are sufficient. The
musicians should be hidden behind a cluster of
palms, or placed in a balcony.
Ordinarily the selections are arranged previously by
the hostess. She must also arrange for encores, and
should make provision for special selections which
the guests may desire.
Dance Programs
The dance program is rarely used now except at
college dances, or army and navy dances. It has lost
prestige with the passing of the old-fashioned ball.
But sometimes there are special occasions when the
hostess wishes to have programs, in which case they
serve not only as pretty and convenient adjuncts to
the occasion, but as appropriate mementos.
Gilt-edged cards attached with a silk cord and
provided with a tiny pencil are pretty when an
attractive little sketch or a bit of verse
enlivens the front cover. Each dance is entered on
the program--and many a delightful memory is kept
alive by glancing at these names days after the
dance was held. These programs may be filled
beforehand or they may be filled at the dance.
Dinner Dances
At the dinner dance, the hostess issues two sets of
invitations, one for those whom she wishes to invite
for dinner and dance both, and one for those whom
she wishes to invite to the dance only. For the
former the ordinary dinner invitation may be issued,
with the words "Dancing at Nine" added in the
left-hand corner. For the latter, the ordinary "at
home" invitation with the same words "Dancing at
Nine" added also in the left-hand corner is correct
form.
Often the hostess has a buffet supper instead of a
dinner. All the guests partake of this refreshment.
On a long table, decorated with flowers, are salads,
sandwiches, ices, jellies and fruits which may be
partaken of throughout the entire evening. Sometimes
hot bouillon is also served, and very often a
midnight supper is given at which hot courses are in
order.
If a dance is scheduled to be held in the ballroom
of a hotel, the guests who are invited to dinner may
be served in the dining-room of that hotel. The
small tables are usually decorated with lamps and
flowers for the occasion, and the dinner may be
ordered by the hostess several days in advance.
Dressing Rooms
Whether the dance be large or small, dressing rooms,
or coat rooms, as they are sometimes called, are
essential for the convenience of the guests. There
must be one for the gentlemen and one for the
ladies, each properly furnished.
It is usual to have a maid servant in attendance in
the dressing room set apart for the ladies. She
helps them relieve themselves of their wraps when
they arrive, and to don them again when they are
ready to depart. A dressing-table, completely
furnished with hand-mirror, powder, perfume and a
small lamp, should be provided. A full-size mirror
is always appreciated. Sometimes, when a great
number of guests are expected, a checking system is
devised to simplify matters and aid the maid in
identifying the wraps.
The men's dressing room may be provided with a
smoking table supplied with all the necessary
requisites for smoking, matches, ash-trays,
cigar-cutters, etc. Here also a servant is usually
on hand to offer the gentleman his service wherever
it is needed.
The Dance
There is a lesser formality, a greater gayety in the
ballroom of to-day. The dance-card and program are
no longer enjoying unrivaled vogue as they did when
our grandmothers' danced the waltz and cotillon. The
pauses between dances are shorter. Something of the
old dignity is gone, but in its place is a new
romance that is perhaps more gratifying. It is not a
romance of the Mid-Victorian period, or a romance
that carries with it the breath of mystery. It is a
strangely companionable and levelheaded romance
which pervades the ballroom and makes everyone,
young and old, man and woman, want to get out on the
floor and dance to the tune of the pretty melodies.
But the ballroom of good society, must retain its
dignity even while it indulges in the new "romance
of the dance." It must observe certain little rules
of good conduct without which it loses all the grace
and charm which are the pride and inspiration of the
dancing couples. There is, for instance, the
etiquette of asking a lady to dance, and accepting
the invitation in a manner graciously befitting the
well-bred young lady of the twentieth century.
When The Lady Is Asked To Dance
Before asking anyone else to dance, the gentleman
must request the first dance of the lady he escorted
to the ball, Then he takes care that she has a
partner for each dance, and that she is never left a
wallflower while he dances with some other lady.
At the conclusion of the dance, the gentleman thanks
the lady for the dance and goes off to find his nest
partner. The lady does not seek her partner for the
next dance, if she has promised it to anyone, but
waits until he comes to claim her. A man should
never leave a woman standing alone on the floor.
"Cutting In"
A modern system of "cutting in" seems to be enjoying
a vogue among our young people. While a dance is in
progress, a young man may "cut in" and ask the lady
to finish the dance with him. If the dance has not
been very long in progress, and the young lady
wishes to continue it, she may nod and say, "The
next time we pass here" The dance continues around
the room, and when the couple reach the same place
again, the lady leaves her partner and finishes the
dance with the young man who has "cut in."
Perhaps this custom of "cutting in" carries with it
the merest suggestion of discourtesy, but when we
consider the informal gayety of the ballroom, the
keen and wholehearted love of dancing, we can
understand why the privilege is extended. Like many
another privilege, it becomes distasteful when it is
abused.
It is not good form for a couple to dance together
so many times as to make themselves conspicuous.
Men should not neglect their duty as dancers because
they prefer to smoke or simply to act as spectators.
Dancing Positions
Dancing has been revolutionized since the day when
the German waltz was first introduced to polite
society. And it is safe to say that some of our
austere granddames would feel righteously indignant
if they were suddenly brought back to the ballroom
and forced to witness some of the modern dance
innovations!
There seems to be an attempt, on the part of the
younger generation (although the older generation is
not so very far behind!) to achieve absolute freedom
of movement, to go through the dance with a certain
unrestrained impulsiveness unknown to the minuet or
graceful quadrille. These newer dances and dancing
interpretations are charming and entertaining; and
yet there is the possibility of their becoming
vulgar if proper dancing positions are not taken.
The position is especially important in the latest
dances.
In guiding a lady across the polished floor to
the tune of a simple waltz or a gay fox-trot, the
gentleman encircles her waist half way with his
right arm, laying the palm of his hand lightly just
above the waist line. With his left hand, he holds
her right at arm's length in the position most
comfortable for both of them, taking special care
not to hold it in an awkward or ungainly position.
His face is always turned slightly to the left,
while hers usually faces front or slightly to the
right. The girl should place her left arm on her
partner's right arm. She must follow him and not try
to lead the dance herself.
When the dance requires certain swaying movements,
as almost all modern dances do, the lady inclines
her body in harmony with that of her partner, and if
the proper care is taken to retain one's poise and
dignity, not even a most exacting chaperon can find
fault with the new steps.
When The Guest Does Not Dance
Always at a dance, formal or informal, there are
guests who do not dance. Usually they are men, for
there is rarely a woman who does not know the steps
of the latest dances--that is, if she ever does
accept invitations at all. But "the guest who does
not dance" is one of the unfortunate things the
hostess has to put up with at every one of her
dances.
And there is rarely ever an excuse for it. Every man
who mingles in society at all, who enjoys the
company of brilliant women and attractive young
ladies, who accepts the invitations of hostesses, is
failing in his duty when he offers as an excuse the
fact that he doesn't know how to dance for there are
sufficient schools of dancing in every city and town
where the latest steps can be learned quickly.
If for any reason, a gentleman does not know how to
dance, and does not want to learn, he may make up
for it by entertaining the chaperons while their
charges are dancing--conversing with them, walking
about with them and escorting them to the
refreshment table, and altogether show by his kind
attentiveness that he realizes his deficiency and
wishes to make up for it. To lounge in the
dressing-room, smoking and chatting with other
gentlemen is both unfair to the hostess and
essentially rude in the matter of ballroom
etiquette. The true gentleman would rather decline
an invitation than be unfair to his hostess and her
guests in this respect.
Public Dances
Very often public dances are given in honor of
some special occasion or a celebrated guest. They
are very much like private dances, except that a
specially appointed committee fulfills the position
and duties of the hostess. At most public balls, the
committee is composed of men and women who wear
badges to indicate their position, and who stand at
the door to receive and welcome each guest. These
men and women do not dance the first dance, but wait
until later in the evening when they are quite sure
that all the guests have arrived; and then they are
always back at their duty during the intervals
between dances.
Guests arriving at a public dance greet the
patronesses with a smile of welcome and a word or
two, but rarely offer their hands to be shaken
unless the ladies serving as patronesses take the
initiative. They may stay for one or two dances, or
throughout the whole evening, as they prefer; and
when departing, it is not necessary to seek out the
patronesses and bid them good-by.
Engraved invitations are usually issued three weeks
before the date set for the ball. On these cards the
names of the patronesses are also engraved. If the
entrance to the ball is by purchased ticket, such as
is always the case when the ball is given for some
charity, the invitations must be preserved and shown
at the entrance.
Sometimes a supper is included in the arrangement of
the public ball, and in such case a caterer is
engaged to attend to all details, including
servants. A buffet supper is always the most
pleasing and satisfactory as the guests may partake
of the foods when they desire and there is no
confusion or interruption to the dance. Hot
bouillon, various meats, salads, cakes, ices, fruits
and confections are an ideal menu. Coffee or punch
is sometimes added.
When a public ball is given in honor of some special
person, that person must be met on his arrival and
immediately introduced to the women on the reception
committee and escorted to the seat reserved for him.
He must be attended throughout the evening,
introduced to everyone he does not know, and all his
wants carefully taken care of. When he departs, he
must be escorted to his carriage, and if he is a
celebrated personage thanked for his
presence--although truly cultured gentlemen prefer
not to have this honor paid them.
A public ball is either a tremendous success or a
miserable failure. There is no in-between. And the
success or failure rests solely on the good judgment
and influence of the ladies and gentlemen of the
committees, including, of course, those who receive.
To mingle freely among the guests, to join in the
conversation, to introduce guests to each other and
find partners for the "wallflowers" all these little
services tend to arouse a spirit of friendliness and
harmony that cannot but result in an evening that
will be long remembered in the minds of every guest.
A Plea For Dancing
Lately there has been a great deal of unfavorable
criticism directed against the modern dances. There
have been newspaper articles condemning the "latest
dance fads" as immoral and degrading. There have
been speeches and lectures against "shaking and
twisting of the body into weird, outlandish
contortions." There have been vigorous crusades
against dance halls. And all because a few ill-bred,
fun-loving, carefree young people wrongly
interpreted the new dances in their own way and gave
to the steps the vulgar abandon appropriate only to
the cheap vaudeville stage or the low dance hall.
Dancing, even the shoulder-shaking, oscillating
dancing of to-day, is really not intended to be
vulgar or immoral at all, despite the crusades of
the anti-immorality dancing committees! What is
dancing, after all, if not the expression of one's
ideals and emotions? It is only the man or woman
with a vulgar mind, with base ideals, who will give
a vulgar interpretation to a dance of any kind. But
the essentially fine girl, the really well-bred man,
the people who, by their poise and dignity have
earned for America the envied title of "Republic of
the Aristocrats"--they dance these latest creations
for the sheer joy of the dance itself, reveling in
its newness, enjoying the novelty of its "different"
steps, seeing nothing in its slow undulations or
brisk little steps, but art--a "jazzy" art, to be
sure, but still the beautiful art of dancing.
And so we plead--let the younger generation enjoy
its giddy waltzes and brisk-paced fox-trots and
fancy new dances just as grandmother, when she was
young, was allowed to enjoy the minuet and the slow
waltz. They are different, yes, and rather hard to
accept after the dignified dances of not so long
ago. But they are picturesque, to say the least, and
artistic. The gracefully-swaying bodies, keeping
step in perfect harmony to the tunes of the newer
symphony orchestras, are delightful to watch; and in
good society, young men and women can always be
trusted to deport themselves with utter grace and
poise.
The minuet was decidedly graceful. The old German
waltz with its dreamy, haunting melody was beautiful
as it was enjoyable. But they have been relegated
into the days of hoop skirts and powdered wigs.
To-day the "jazzy" dances are in vogue, and society
in its lowest and highest circles is finding intense
pleasure in the whirling, swirling dances decreed by
fashion as her favorites. Why complain? Perhaps in
another year or two, these giddy-paced dances will
be "out of style" and in their stead will be solemn,
slow dances more graceful and stately than even the
minuet of yore.
The Charm of Dress In Dancing.
Immediately after the Reign of Terror, France was
plunged into a reckless round of unrestrained gayety
that can come only from love of life and youth and
laughter long pent-up. It was as though an avalanche
of joy had been released; it was in reality the
reaction from the terrors and nightmares of those
two years of horror. The people were free, free to
do as they pleased without the fear of the
guillotine ever present; and all France went mad
with rejoicing.
It was then that dancing came into its own. Almost
overnight huge dance halls sprang up. The homes of
wealthy aristocrats who had been sacrificed to the
monster guillotine, were converted into places for
dancing. Every available inch of space was utilized
for the dance. And the more these freed people
danced, the more their spirits soared with the joy
of life and living, until they found in the dance
itself the interpretation of freedom and all that it
means.
A biographer who was an eye-witness of this madcap
Paris, wrote in detail about the dance and the dress
of these people. He told how they dressed in the
brightest clothes they could obtain, for maddened
with happiness as they were, they instinctively felt
that bright clothes would enliven their spirits. And
they did!
"The room was a mass of swirling, twirling figures,"
the biographer writes, "men, women and children in
weird, vivid clothes. It seemed natural that they
should be dancing so wildly in their wild costumes;
in their sabots and aprons of two months ago they
would not have been able to take one step."
It is, then, the spirit of clothes that imparts to
one the spirit of the dance. We have mentioned these
facts about the Reign of Terror to show what effect
clothes do have on the spirit, and incidentally to
show what the ballroom owes to dress. For it is
undoubtedly the gayly-colored dance frock of the
miss of the twentieth century, and the strikingly
immaculate dance suit of her partner that gives to
the ballroom to-day much of its splendid brilliance.
At The Afternoon Dance
There can be no comparison between the mad dance of
freed France and the simple, graceful dance of
to-day. Yet we can see the effect of clothes in
relation to both.
It is not often that dances are held in the
afternoon, but when the occasion does arise, dress
is just as gay and colorful as one can wear without
being gaudy. The decorous effect of these
bright-colored costumes is what brings the "giddy
kaleidoscopic whirl of colors and costumes, modes
and manners" that the historian speaks of when he
mentions the ballroom.
For the afternoon dance, we would suggest that the
very young person choose the fluffiest and most
becoming style which fashion permits. Trim it gaily,
but above all, make it youthful--for youth and
dancing are peculiarly allied.
The older woman will want a gown that is more suited
to her years. It may be of taffeta, Canton crepe or
crepe-de-chine; but satin is one of the materials
that is preferred for more formal occasions than the
afternoon dance. The colors may be somber, to match
one's tastes, but the trimming should have a note of
gayety.
Décolleté is never worn at the afternoon dance.
Short sleeves may be worn if Fashion favors them at
the time, and the neck of the gown is also cut on
the lines that agree with the prevalent mode. But it
is extremely bad taste, even for a very celebrated
guest of honor, to attend the afternoon dance in a
sleeveless, décolleté gown.
A late custom seems to favor the wearing of satin
slippers to match the gown. It is not by any means
bad taste, but patent leather or kid pumps are
preferred for the afternoon, reserving the more
elaborate satin pumps for evening wear. Long white
silk or kid gloves and a light-colored afternoon
wrap complete the correct dress for the afternoon
dance. The hat, of course, depends on Fashion's whim
at the moment.
Gentlemen At The Dance
In summer, the gentleman may wear a complete suit of
gray with a white duck waistcoat and light linen to
the afternoon dance, completing his costume with
black patent leather shoes or oxford ties, light
gray gloves, and straw hat with black and white
band. But whether it be for summer or winter, the
dark suit is always better taste.
It may be of serge, twillet or homespun, preference
being given always to the conventional navy blue
serge. Double-Breasted models are appropriate for
the young man; single-breasted for the older. Light
linen and bright ties are in full accordance with
the gay colors worn by the women at the dance. The
coat may be the ordinary unlined, straight hanging
overcoat of thin material in a light color, or it
may be an attractive full belted raglan coat of tan
or brown fleece. In either case it is worn with the
conventional afternoon hat of the season.
Dress For The Ball
When the dance is held in the evening, it often
assumes an air of formality.
It is at the ball that such important events as
introducing one's daughter to society or celebrating
the graduation of one's son from
college, takes place.
Of course, one wears one's most important jewels to
the ball, and indulges in a headdress that is a
trifle more elaborate than usual. The event is a
brilliant one, and if gaudiness and ostentation are
conscientiously avoided, one may dress as
elaborately as one pleases.
This does not mean, however, that the woman whose
purse permits only one evening gown, need feel ill
at ease or self-conscious at the ball, for
simplicity has a delightful attractiveness all its
own, and if the gown is well-made of excellent
materials, and in a style and color that is
becoming, one will be just as effectively dressed as
the much-bejeweled dowager.
Dress of the Debutante
A gown is chosen with much premeditated
consideration for so momentous an occasion as being
ushered into society. The young lady does well to
seek the advice of her friends who are already in
society, and of her modiste who knows by long
experience just what is correct and becoming. But
perhaps we can give some advice here that will be
helpful.
A delicately tinted gown, in pastel shades, or one
that is pure white is preferred for the happy
debutante. Tulle, chiffon, net and silk
georgette are the most popular materials. The style
should be youthful and simple, preferably bordering
on the bouffant lines rather than on those that are
more severely slender. The neck may be cut square,
round or heart-shaped, and elbow-length sleeves or
full-length lace sleeves are preferred. The
sleeveless' gown is rarely worn by the young
debutante.
The debutante who wears many jewels displays poor
taste. Just a string of softly glowing pearls, or
one small diamond brooch, is sufficient. Her hair
should be arranged simply in a French coil or
youthful coiffure, and should be wholly without
ornamentation. Simplicity, in fact, is one of the
charms of youth, and the wise young person does not
sacrifice it to over-elaboration, even on the day of
her debut.
Wraps At The Ball
The woman wears her most elaborate evening wrap to
the ball. Soft materials in light shades are
suggested, with trimmings of fur for the winter
months. A wrap of old blue or old rose velvet with a
collar of white fog is becoming and attractive when
it is within one's means. But the simple wrap of
cloth, untrimmed, is certainly better taste for the
woman whose means are limited. However,
discrimination should be shown in the selection of
lines and colors. A simple wrap, well-cut, and of
fine material in a becoming shade, is as appropriate
and effective as a wrap completely of fur. For the
woman who must dress economically a dark loose coat
of black satin is serviceable for many occasions.
Hats are never worn to the ball. A shawl or scarf of
fine lace may be thrown over the hair and shoulders.
Or a smaller shawl may be tied merely around the
head. Satin pumps are worn, usually with buckle
trimmings; and long gloves of white silk or kid, or
in a color to match the gown, complete the outfit.
Ball Dress For Men
Nothing less strictly formal than the complete full
dress suit is worn by the gentleman at the evening
ball. His costume strikes a somber, yet smart, note.
Whether it be summer or winter, the gentleman wears
the black full dress coat, lapels satin-faced if he
so desires, and trousers to match. Full rolled
waistcoat, small bow-tie and stiff linen are all
immaculately white. Patent leather pumps and black
silk socks complete the outfit.
In summer, the gentleman wears over his full dress
suit a light unlined coat, preferably black in
color. If the lapels of the suit are
satin-faced, the coat lapels may correspond. White
kid gloves are worn, and a conventional silk hat. In
winter, the coat may be a heavy, dark-colored
raglan, although the Chesterfield overcoat more
suits his dignified dress. With it he wears white
kid gloves and a high silk hat or felt Alpine as he
prefers.
For The Simple Country Dance
There can be nothing more picturesque and delightful
than some of the pretty little social dances held in
the smaller towns. Sometimes they are held in the
afternoon; more often in the evening, but always
they are a source of keen enjoyment both to the
participants and to those who "look on."
We are going to tell you about a dance held recently
in the home of a social leader in a typical small
town. Everyone of any consequence whatever attended,
and the occasion proved one worthy of remembrance in
the social annals of the town. There were perhaps
one hundred and fifty women and one hundred men.
Three rooms in the hostess' home were thrown open
into one huge ballroom. The dancing began at eight
o'clock in the evening--rather early for the city,
but unusually late for this country town.
To a visitor from so gay a metropolis as New York,
the simplicity of the women's dress was a pleasing
change. They were in evening dress, yes, but a
strangely more conservative evening dress than that
described previously for the formal ball. There were
no sleeveless gowns, no elaborate decolletes.
Taffetas, chiffons and silk brocades were developed
simply into gowns of dignified charm. One did not
notice individual gowns, for no one woman was
dressed more elaborately than another. This is what
everyone should strive for simplicity with charm and
a complete absence of all conspicuousness.
Fashion has been condemned. Women have been
ridiculed for their "extreme tastes." As a matter of
fact, civilization owes dress a great debt, and
women have an inherent good taste. And both these
facts are forcibly proved at the country dance,
where simplicity and harmony of color combine to
give an effect that is wholly delightful and
charming.
The lesson we might take from this is that
simplicity in dress has more beauty and effect than
elaborate "creations."
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