It is popularly supposed that
sextons and undertakers object
to those old fashioned titles
and prefer to be termed funeral
directors. According to several
of the best known undertakers in
this city with whom an Eagle
reporter talked yesterday, this
popular supposition is an error.
it is only the sextons and
undertakers of small towns,
alluded to by their city cousins
rather slightingly as
countrymen, who insist on the
dignity of the term funeral
director. The business of
conducting a funeral in up to
date style becomes more and more
complicated every day.
It is expected by the
afflicted family that the man
who is to take charge of the
last rites shall not intrude
himself, that he shall have an
intuition of the wishes of the
family, however singular they
may be, and that every part of
the function shall be smoothly
performed. He is often the
recipient of family secrets and
in this particular he ranks next
to the family physician. The
practice of embalming is, the
undertakers say, growing more in
favor daily, and this has led to
a growing demand that a bill
shall be introduced in the
legislature requiring
examinations to be held in order
to learn who are best fitted to
properly embalm. There is in
some states such a law, but
there is none having this
requisite in New York. It is a
common complaint among
undertakers that coachman can
learn the process of embalming
scientifically and start in
business to the detriment of
those who have spent much time
and money to fit themselves for
the service.
It is an old
saying that it costs less to
live than it does to die, and in
these luxurious days the axiom
is more in evidence than ever
before. not many years ago
cherry coffins were used to
encase the dead; now coffins are
very largely done away with and
caskets are used. The former is
tapered at the head and foot,
while the latter has straight
lines. More than the shape,
however, is the way in which the
caskets are made. Some are of
solid oak and others are of
mahogany and they are hand
carved, sand papered and
varnished. Antique designs in
carving are most favored. Then
there are caskets covered with
cloth or silk plush. It was not
so long ago that the covering of
a casket was uniformly of black,
now it is preferably of some
rich, solid color. The tints
most selected are coachman's
drab, Steel gray, silver gray
and ashes of roses. As a matter
of fact there are many other
shades used. When the casket is
to be covered with plush or
cloth the body of the coffin is
made of red cedar or solid oak.
As to expense in the selection
of a casket it may be bought for
any price from $75 to $400.
Probably $150 is the price most
frequently paid.
The band carved caskets range
from $150 to $400 and the cloth
covered ones from $75 to $350.
Then there is to be reckoned in,
in estimating for the cost of a
modern funeral, the carriage
hire. This has, in this city of
cemeteries, a fixed rate. For
one carriage to Greenwood
cemetery from any part of the
city the rate is $5, to the
cemetery of the Evergreens,
$5.50, and to Calvary cemetery,
$6. Funeral plots in the
cemetery vary in price. A
thousand dollars is often paid,
but for the average family, that
buys one grave, the price in
Greenwood is $31, in other
cemeteries from $10 to $20.
There is usually a steady rise
in price as the cemetery grows
in years, owing largely to the
improvements made and the
consequent growing demand for
space.
An expense not often thought of
by the inexperienced in the
matter of funerals is the
singing at the services. It is
often supposed, when the matter
is thought of at all, that those
who sing at the church or at the
private residence of afflicted
families, volunteer their
services. That is true in small
communities, but it is not true
in such a large city as
Brooklyn. If the deceased person
has been a member of a church it
is the choir or some of the
members of that choir, who are
present at the last services.
That is one of the reasons why
funeral services are more rarely
held on a Sunday than was
formerly the case. The singers
receive various prices for their
services, but it seldom falls
below $10 for each singer and
sometimes each receives $75. The
singers, in fact, expect to be
paid just as does the
undertaker.
Taken altogether a modern
funeral, therefore, may cost
$1,000 and it may cost a great
deal less than that.
Undertakers, like doctors, do
not always get rich. They often
bury bodies for poor persons and
charge barely the cost. Such
acts of charity are seldom
mentioned by them and never in a
spirit of boasting.